So we’ve all seen guys do this in movies, give a woman the time of her life, so she has an orgasm that never seems to stop. Well, the truth is that this is not just for celluloid heroes, simply put, these techniques are easy to use and anyone can give their woman the most incredible sexual experience.
The first realization is that it takes practice. The other thing is that you have to remember that sex is not just about a prolonged orgasm, it also has other things and you also have to take care of the emotional side to let it release enough to enjoy with you. Therefore, the atmosphere becomes very important. Arrange her place the way she likes. That can mean candles, scents, oils, or a variety of things. Just make sure she’s relaxed and comfortable. It sounds trite, but trust me, getting him in the right mindset mentally is half the way.
The one thing most men forget during foreplay is to use lubrication. Nothing ruins her condition more than not being wet enough when your fingers enter her. For those who don’t like the artificial feel of some of the more popular lubes, natural oils are a great alternative.
At first you will concentrate on the most sensitive places, reserving the breasts and clitoris for later. Most women love the feel of warm, oiled hands rubbing their spine, so this can be a good place to start, sensually tracing the contours of your spine. An added benefit is that it puts her in a good position to talk dirty in her ear, stimulate her neck or even her perineum or anus if she likes to be touched.
Next, move on to the breasts, then the clitoris. While most people know about the clitoris, what many don’t know is just how powerful it is. It is possible to get a woman to have a squirting orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone. The key is to know your woman. Each woman varies in the way they should be touched. Some will want you to touch it directly, others prefer that you touch the soft tissue around the clitoris. Explore different ways to touch her and see how she responds to her.
The woman can also control her arousal. If she has been doing Kegel exercises, she alternates between long contractions and shorter, faster contractions and this will allow you some control over her pleasure. As she gets more aroused, she pushes some well lubricated fingers or a sex toy inside her. She continues to stimulate her clitoris while stimulating her internally to the point where her vagina feels congested and begins to contract. These two signs will tell you that she is definitely close to a massive and real orgasm.
Now you need to move on to the G-spot. You want to constantly switch between clitoral and G-spot stimulation to keep turning her on more and more. Soon, the time between the orgasmic waves will get smaller and smaller, until they start to build on top of each other. This is the point where prolonging the orgasm really pays off and she has a continuous orgasm.
The best part is that each time you experience it, it becomes easier for you to experience it again and more intense when you have another one. Soon you will be able to give her orgasms that will make her come back again and again.
