Your life has been shattered. Your girlfriend left you and you feel that life is no longer worth living. Wallowing in self-pity is all he can do now, he’s so depressed. You love your ex very much and you wonder if there is any chance to get your ex girlfriend back.
You feel sorry for yourself, and chances are your family and friends do too. However, the last person on earth you will find sympathy from is your ex. You didn’t argue with your family and friends, or say those terrible things to them that you said to your ex.
She will not forget what happened in a hurry. If she tries to call her now or send her messages, she will just ignore them. Getting one of your friends to tell him how depressed you are since the break up won’t work either. She is in as much pain as you are and she is also VERY angry with you. Getting your ex girlfriend back by playing on her sympathy will NOT work.
In any case, even if you get your ex to talk to you by making him feel sorry for you, is this really what you want? Okay, she’ll feel sorry for you for a while, but how long will this last? You will continue to do the things that irritate her, so another argument and another breakup is inevitable.
Getting your ex girlfriend back because she loves you and WANTS to be with you is a much better option. It will cost you a little more effort, but in the end it will be much more rewarding. She just works on the things you were doing that were bothering her, corrects any mistakes you’ve made, she starts with a clean slate so to speak.
Offer your ex the type of man they are looking for, the man you were when you first started dating. Apologize to her for making her so unhappy. She admits your mistakes and let her see your willingness to correct them. In short, offer her a relationship that will make her happy again, and she will have a good chance of getting her ex-girlfriend back.
