What are you supposed to do if your girlfriend breaks up with you and acts like she doesn’t care? It hurts, doesn’t it? Being left out by the woman you adore. As much as she tries, she just can’t put the relationship behind her and move on. You do not want. Regardless of how much she has hurt you, you still love and need her in your life. If that’s the case, you have to go ahead with a plan to get her back.
If your girlfriend breaks up with you and acts like she doesn’t care about you, you can’t ignore it. She shows you a side of her personality that you may not have realized she was there. There are many possible reasons why she is suddenly treating you this way. Perhaps the two of you had a big argument just before she left you? If that’s the case, her ignoring you now may be a result of her hurt feelings. Did she hook up with another guy shortly after the breakup? Her new attitude of not caring may be because she feels very guilty about it.
Surprisingly, the way to get him to pay attention to you again is somewhat dramatic. Even if you feel inclined to just send her a long email explaining how you feel or if you want to call her to do the same, don’t. At this very moment your ex girlfriend has the feeling of being in control of the situation. She knows very well that you are in deep emotional pain from the breakup. Although she would like you to believe that she doesn’t know what you are going through, she doesn’t. She is very aware of it and feeds on her ego. She knows, without a doubt, that if she were to call you right now and ask you to come back, you would stumble running to do just that.
You have to change that perception immediately. The way to regain their attention is very simple. You have to act like you don’t care either. There is absolutely no reason for you to be mean or mean when you do this. You just need to send her a short text or email letting her know that you now see the reason for the breakup and thanking her for being a part of her life. Wish him well in a very generic way and leave it at that. If you can manage to do this in one phone call while maintaining your composure, that’s even better. All you have to do from then on is ignore her completely.
Once she realizes that you have also left her, her attitude will change. She is no longer in control of her, she will start to see what she has lost and that is when your ex girlfriend will suddenly become the one to chase you back.
