Did you just celebrate your 50th birthday? Congratulations! You are now 50 years old. A completely different world of dating sites and the Internet has opened up for you.
When you are “single and appear to be over 50,” several of the same dating etiquette rules and guidelines apply to older love that applied when you were younger. One of them is that if you are a mature man or a lady, you want to look your best.
The problem is, when you’re 25, all you need to do is get out of bed, shower, brush your teeth, and do your hair, and you look amazing. Now that you are single and in your 50s, you can still look great and be attractive. It’s just that now in your 50s to be attractive, you need to apply a little more concerted effort.
First, good basic preparation is still applied. Yes, that means showering and shaving.
For gentlemen over 50:
Some men in their 50s often want to avoid shaving at least a few days a week. A little stubble can be attractive to a man in his 50s. However, gentlemen, speak to your barber and be sure to buttons your stubble. It could grow unevenly. You can sport a modern two-day beard look, just keep it trimmed and neat.
Second, try a few after shaving to find out what you like. Some men can use just a hint of a masculine scent simply by wearing a scented deodorant. When it comes to scents, remember, less is more. Keep it light.
Lastly, have a little fun when you go on a date. Women still love it when a man wears a navy blue blazer. Sure, it can be casual in the modern age of digital dating and just pair it with an open-necked shirt. If the occasion is a little more elegant, plan to wear a tie as well. She will love it. If the situation is more casual, a nice, clean tropical print shirt that isn’t too colorful might be fine. It depends on where you live in the country.
For 50 year old ladies:
Ladies, you may want to keep some of the same ideas in mind. Keep your standards of grooming high. Some of you may have attracted a first husband in his 20s without wearing makeup. However, now that you are in your 50s, you would probably benefit from wearing a little light makeup.
Before heading to the makeup department, keep it simple and light. Stop by the local pharmacy first. Try a light powder foundation paired with some mascara to enhance your eyes. Add some lip color in either a tinted lip gloss or a sheer lipstick.
When it comes to how you dress, a cute pair of jeans paired with heels is a fun feminine look. Men still love to see women in a skirt or dress, so wear them when you can. Once you look great, you’ll be flirting with the mature men who show up at coffee shops and the bagel shop for lunch.
Once you’re flirting, go ahead and ask for the date! Now that you’re being hot after 50, the dates are sure to line up. What are the mature dating challenges that you are encountering? Where do you want help? Chime in the comment section here, and I’ll be sure to address them in future articles.
