When it comes to tragedies, prevention is always better than cure. So even if you are currently involved in a happy relationship, it won’t hurt to take some feng shui precautions to guard against infidelity. The most important direction to consider is the northwest. The Northwest represents the patriarch (father) of the home or the man of the relationship.
To determine the northwest direction of your house or room, stand in the middle of your house with a compass and mark the northwest direction (don’t use rough estimates using the direction of the sun – get a good compass!). The bathroom, kitchen or warehouse should never be located in the northwest. This will not only bring bad luck to the patriarch of the family, but will also bring turmoil, restlessness, and sometimes even misfortune to the man of the house. Here, the house will no longer be a sanctuary for the man, and this can turn into an aversion, causing him to stay away from the house. If this is the case, there is no alternative but to move the kitchen or bathroom to a different area of the house.
In an irregularly shaped house, the northwest corner may even be missing. If so, the patriarch of the man of the house will rarely be at home. This is a factor that can lead to infidelity. To remedy this, place a bright light in the northwest direction of the house. This is only a temporary solution. If possible, expand the area of the house to the northwest direction.
The northwest area of your home is dominated by the metallic element. Reinforce the metal element in that area with lots of metal decorations (like wind chimes or metal sculptures). Having a lot of ground elements in this direction will also be beneficial as the ground element produces metal. The lucky colors for this direction are red, white, metallic and yellow. Don’t forget to fill the northwest area with symbols of love and fidelity. Hang family portraits or photos of you and your partner in this area. A couple of mandarin duck figurines is also a great wedding stimulant.
By having good northwest feng shui, you will ensure that the man of the house always stays close to home. If you are single, activating the Northwest will attract a lot of Yang energy which in turn will attract a man into your life.
The southwest direction is also very important as it represents the matriarch of the family, or the mother of the family. The southwest should also be full of symbols of fidelity. The predominant element of this direction is the earth, so keep this area well lit as often as possible. Place many decorations made of crystals, clay, or stone in this area to strengthen the earth element.
If the Southwest is under-energized or lacking, a single man will find it difficult to find a good wife; and a married man will not get enough support and affection from his wife.
