Mentally go back to a time when you and your wife were happy and madly in love. Can you remember how it felt to have your heart racing every time you walked into the room? Can you remember how he hung on your every word? Do you miss that? Read on and I’ll share with you how you can start getting that time back again.
Therapists and psychologists have reported an increase in female infidelity in recent years. However, many husbands fail to recognize the signs that their wives are cheating on them because female affairs often have different cues than male ones. Husbands are often surprised to hear that their wives have had an affair right under their noses. There are signs that a husband simply needs to know before it’s too late.
Emotional matter before a physical matter: Women are generally not quick to cheat. Most wives don’t cheat overnight. because women are relationship oriented, many issues develop emotionally first and usually in stages. This lends itself well to many signs that a husband can spot early. Most of the warning signs will be apparent long before any physical intimacy occurs. Examples include:
- Suddenly fixing her appearance
- Taking fitness classes when I never had any interest before.
- stay late at work
- Talk about a particular person at work constantly
- Do not show physical signs of love and affection.
- Starting fights when I didn’t before OR being easier to get along with when I used to argue a lot
An insightful husband should be able to tell that there is a problem in the marriage. Just as there are symptoms of a medical problem, there are almost always symptoms of a marital problem. A spouse’s cheating is another symptom of a larger problem. Because women are often emotional creatures, if a wife begins to regress emotionally, you may believe there is a problem.
Husbands must learn to open up and ask the question: We are fine? It’s a small, simple question that can open up a conversation about the status of the relationship. Husbands often don’t want to open that can of worms to create a long drawn out conversation and/or fight with their wives. But the alternative may be an ugly divorce if there is an affair. Women often talk about their emotions and by asking a simple little question, a husband could prevent an affair from happening.
