Giving or receiving is the quintessence of life. Life can only be reduced to contention if you don’t like it or you don’t like it; of course, such a situation is rare in most lives lived in this pleasant land. At the beginning, that is, when you are born, it is not known if you like being born or before being conceived in the womb; the situation becomes murkier because most babies cry after they are born and it is considered a healthy sign. Therefore, we will skip the very beginning of our life when, in any case, we do not know why that ‘I’ enters a particular womb through some particular external source among billions and is born into a particular family. in a particular place. in our sympathetic land, and focus primarily on the ‘likes’ continually generated throughout our conscious lives and why we always like to please.
We began to like our parents, particularly our mom, our food, our relatives, our friends, our teachers, our gender-specific entities, our bosses, various objects ranging from gadgets to books, schools, universities, jobs, etc. , and tastes for we emanate from all those sources; because, our tastes always generate a positive factor of ‘well-being’ that keeps us alive. So in this probably ‘nice’ writing we will focus on why we like them tremendously well when we like other humans, animals, or pets. We will keep completely safe from any type of “unpleasant” factors that lurk in every “pleasant” corner; namely; we don’t like that we don’t like that.
From a very young age we feel energetic when mom smiles sweetly at us and encourages us to take the first steps in life, and we burst into endless giggles that facilitate the art of walking. When a parent likes our handwritten alphabets, we feel so happy that we start to make more efforts to produce more beautiful letters. Our mother looks heavenly when we don’t worry about food and start taking healthy bites, and she makes us so happy that we promise to always make her happy. When our classroom teacher smiles when looking at our homework and says what he likes, this very act makes us even harder students. When our friends like our birthday gifts or other gifts, we become best friends. On the playground, as some of us display our unique expertise or intelligence, our teamwork spirit fills with enthusiasm.
In the other more mature stages of life, the voluminous story of “pleasing” becomes more elaborate, productive and contagious, too much for the comfort of this writer, and therefore we will only mention a few significant situations. The examiner likes your answers, the professor announces, in the midst of a great tension, the marks obtained, and if you obtain the highest or very good marks you are captivated and grateful; If you exchange glances with members of the opposite sex, and those glances turn into smiles or chatter, you get an adrenaline rush, and your friends’ jokes make it even more enjoyable, of course, sometimes a ‘like’ turns into ‘love’ which, however, is not included in this presentation; a faceless exam somewhere gives you good grades for your answer job for a job, you get a call for an interview, interviewers like your personality and you get the job, and this makes you the happiest person in the world. life; You are supposed to like your spouse immensely, and if the spouse returns that ‘like’ or ‘love’ back to you, you will find your life worth living; when your boss likes your jobs and recommends a promotion you are in seventh heaven with an insatiable energy and in the subsequent family life of being a father, being an uncle, being in-law, being a grandfather and so on an expansive series of ‘are generated I like that they keep you happy and happier. There can be many other situations where your creative contributions get liked and you become famous, through a charming network of likes. Then, of course, there are the festivals, parties, social gatherings, family reunions and the like where the likes generated are huge and deliciously contagious.
This ‘probably nice’ piece would be incomplete if we excluded the social media of today’s digital world from our scope. Well, in social networks there is a fierce competition to generate and devour ‘likes’. If your post gets less than two digits of likes, you usually won’t be unhappy, but you will try better posts; more than ten likes will make you considerably happy and if you reach a century of likes you recharge and ‘viral’ is the last word for your unlimited happiness generated by likes. However, there are certain unwritten rules to perform well on social media: you will have to be continually hyperactive and you will have to be very liked by others in order to generate likes for you. Therefore, a dictum arises in social networks: I like it and I like it.
We have clearly seen how a resemblance makes us happy at every stage of our life, and it is the best that God has given us. We have not mentioned the word “appreciation”, which is also the best possible expression of positivity, because appreciation usually follows a like, in most situations. Therefore, we can hope to have a species of ‘like-minded’ humans who can only be a good development on this suffering planet earth. Nor is there anything wrong with generalizing the maxim that evolves in social networks. I like it and I like it. Guaranteed happiness.
