The end of a relationship doesn’t really have to be the end. There are ways to realize what you lost and grieve the breakup. This is actually quite easy to do, but it requires doing the opposite of what most women do when a relationship ends. You need to remember that men think differently than women and you need to adjust your approach accordingly if you want to win him back. Do this and you will soon find out that he is the one trying to win you back.
The best way to make an ex boyfriend realize what he lost is to move on with your life. If you act like you’re not upset about the breakup, he’ll start to think that he made a mistake. In his mind, you should be completely crushed by the breakup, if not, he’ll be confused, he’ll be pretty upset too. Even if you’re really upset about the breakup, you can’t let him know.
It’s important that you don’t sit around and wallow, you have to go out and do things. Being active will not only make it easier for you to deal with the breakup, but it will also attract the attention of your ex boyfriend. Eventually, he’ll find out that you’re out there and move on with your life. Doing this will make him wonder if he did the right thing in breaking up with you. You will gain a lot of respect from him if you are able to do this.
What you absolutely should avoid is making contact with your ex boyfriend. As soon as you do this, you will have given him all the power. It’s natural to want to ask him to take you back or ask him why he wanted to end the relationship. You might want to see how it goes. This is something you have to avoid. If you’re the one contacting him, you’re telling him that you’re not okay with the breakup and haven’t really moved on.
Obviously acting like you’re fine and avoiding contact with your ex boyfriend is not an easy matter. When a relationship ends, it can be a very emotional time and people tend to make bad decisions when they are emotional. The important thing is to take some time and think about what you are going to do. Don’t do anything in the heat of the moment; it will almost certainly be something wrong. It’s best to find something else to keep you busy so you’re not constantly thinking about him. This will make it easier for you to avoid contact with him so you can make him realize what he lost and regret the breakup.
