This is tricky, because it is not easy to break a relationship anyway, be it in real life or in a sweet one. You would think that it is easy to break a sugar relationship since, by definition, it is an agreement, that is, without conditions. And that of course is understood from the beginning of the relationship.
Via email?
In general, you could say via email or text, ‘Hey, sorry honey, this fix isn’t working for me anymore so I need to break it.’ Or you could say you went back to your wife / girlfriend / boyfriend. All of the above have happened to me personally, when the SBs I was seeing at the time found another SD, or just decided to get out of the sugar life. Other times, my emails and texts were completely ignored, even when the arrangement part, as well as the sexual part of the relationship, was going very well. Ignore is the worst way to break things, of course, since most humans need some sort of close, good and bad, especially if the relationship has lasted 6 months or more.
But of course, in this era of texting and Facebook it’s very easy to get into a relationship, but also break it up in an instant. So the technology is great, but not in this case.
I usually like to break it up in person or over the phone, especially if it was a long-term relationship. I feel like one needs to give at least some kind of respect, even if that’s getting old-fashioned. Hmm i guess I am old fashioned…
Or in person?
And before closing, one more thing I learned from one of my former mentors: if the relationship has lasted a long time, say 6 months or more, it makes sense to break it in person. and give SB a generous parting gift.
Thus they leave as friends, and also has the added benefit that if she is the type who seeks revenge or blackmail, this parting gift may soften its stance or make you reconsider completely.
