If you have done something that has damaged the bond between you and the man you love, you are in a very difficult situation. Sometimes it can seem unbearable when you caused devastation in your relationship. However, we all make mistakes in life and asking for forgiveness is not always enough. If you want your boyfriend to trust you again, you must be willing to work hard and you must be persistent. It’s not always easy, but if keeping the man you love is your goal, it’s worth all the effort it takes.
One important thing to remember if you want your boyfriend to trust you again is that you need to show him that you will be different, not just say it. When a person feels betrayed, they have a hard time believing everything the other person tells them. You can promise over and over again that you’ll be different, but he won’t believe it until he sees it. That’s why it’s better to put all your effort into actually making those big changes instead of trying to convince him to think you’ll be different. Strive every day to improve who you are as a woman. Work on the problem that caused the problem in the first place. Show her, through her continued good behavior, that you have really learned from her mistake.
Talk to him about what your needs are during this time. When trust is broken in a relationship, the partner who feels betrayed needs to express what they feel. That could include anger, disappointment, and confusion. Let him tell you everything he feels. Please answer any and all questions as honestly and openly as possible. If you want your boyfriend to trust you again, you must show him that you are an open book and that you will not keep secrets from him. If he feels that you are really making an effort to help him feel more secure in your love for him, he will start to open up again.
Patience is vital during this time. You can’t expect me to forgive and forget overnight. It will take time and at times it may feel like you are getting nowhere. Be supportive, honest, and available to him as much as you can. He may take some time, but he will start to trust you again.
