Let’s be honest, dressing up your kids is rarely fun. Most of the time, it’s actually a stressful matter that leads to someone screaming. Or crying. Or both. It’s especially stressful when you’re short on time and trying to get out the door quickly. Both of my daughters decide to throw tantrums over their outfits at the most inopportune times. Just as we get in the car, my older daughter starts complaining that her sleeves are bothering her or that her pants are too long. The youngest, on the other hand, thinks that it is the funniest thing in the world for mom to chase her around the house while she gets dressed. That is why I was inspired to write this article. In the following paragraphs, I’ll provide mom-tested solutions that have helped make dressing my kids easier and sometimes even fun.
1. Bid Options
Children often feel dominated by their parents or by adults in general. This is true when it comes to dressing them too. An easy way to make your children feel in control of the situation while doing things “their way” is to offer them choices. Does your little princess want to wear a pink dress or a purple dress? Is she in the mood for a skirt set or a short set? Pre-select 2-3 outfits in advance and let your kids choose the one they like best.
2. Find engaged
Take a few minutes at night or in the morning, time permitting, to discuss an outfit with your child. Let him search her closet while you give her opinion and see if you can agree on something. The key is to be kind and provide guidance. Try not to be too bossy. If she wants to wear a T-shirt and it’s 60 degrees, say “Honey, you’re going to be cold, it’s cold today.” If she still insists, offer to put on a pair of jeans and take a cadri “just in case.”
3. Make it fun for both of you.
Sometimes for little ones, dressing up isn’t fun enough. I already mentioned that my youngest daughter finds it more fun to run away from me than to put on her clothes. What I do when she’s in a silly mood is play a game with her. While I put on socks or pants I say “I’m going to eat your foot!” and pretend that the sock “eats his foot” while I put it on his little fingers. I have sung songs and played pickaboo games with my two daughters while dressing them.
4. Let them dress themselves
Sometimes it is only the north that is worth it. If you are running late or already having a rough morning, let the children dress themselves. Who knows, maybe they will surprise you!
Dressing your kids doesn’t have to be stressful. By following one or all of the tips above, you can make it an educational, bonding, and fun experience for everyone involved!
