Here are some additional tips and questions to consider when choosing an exclusive matchmaker. Also, I have offered some pros and cons when considering other dating sites:
– The Matchmaker should ask about your current dating status. An experienced matchmaker will only work with emotionally available people, so if they don’t ask about your status, he finds out why. Today many people are divorced and dating; Matchmakers work with a large volume of divorced clients. It is imperative that the matchmaker be discerning about the emotional well-being of his clients, as only those who have healed from a nasty divorce can be emotionally ready to establish a new and lasting loving relationship. Questions to ask: Are all the clients you work with emotionally ready to establish a loving relationship? Can you work with me if I am recently divorced?
– A Matchmaker should review the process and what it involves. Different companies use different criteria for matching, make sure you agree before membership begins. This is a good time to remember that investing in an exclusive matchmaker is an investment in yourself and your love life. Questions to ask: How is your company different? What do you base your matchup on?
In conclusion, I always recommend that you do your homework and research the industry before being “sold” by the first company you call. Matchmakers should be researched, interviewed, and evaluated with the same seriousness with which you would research, interview, and evaluate a personal accountant or attorney. Good luck in your search for love!
Now, here are the pros and cons when weighing options other than matchmaking:
Internet
Advantage – Cheap and hundreds of singles available for review at your fingertips
Cons- Using online dating sites involves a high probability of misrepresentation, security issues, and can be more time consuming than you might think.
dating service franchises
Advantage – This is a cheap way to join a dating service, and you will have a lot of dates.
Cons- Lower level of personalization or attention, high staff turnover which may result in a lack of communication when considering your personal comments and requests.
Trusting friends to set you up
Advantage – Using this method can expand your social circles; facilitate double dating. Also, your friend knows this person and can do background checks on him.
Cons- Your friends are not experienced matchmakers and often the settings don’t match. You may find that you have nothing in common with your date(s), other than that you both share a friendship with the same friend. If the date is a real disaster, it can create upset with your friend who is arranging your dates.
Meeting people through work and hanging out with them.
Advantage – These people are there, available, in front of you.
Cons- Sometimes there are rules for interoffice relationships, so be careful. Also, if you do end up dating someone at work, be aware of how the relationship could end, because if it doesn’t end well, your work life and personal life will become intertwined and both can be negatively affected… there you have it. that! I invite you to visit my website and read more about dating and relationships.
