After doing this, your girlfriend will be more intensely attracted to you, will want to be closer to you AND will be less motivated to have a “wandering eye.”
So what is this special trick?
I’ll tell you about it in a moment, but first I want to help you take a look at the life of the typical young college girl …
The average girl in college is TRAPPED.
Yes. It’s true. Most 20-year-old girls, especially if they are attractive, are told what to do by almost everyone they meet.
Let’s start with their parents. Dad feels very insecure about sending his baby to school. One way or another, you want to make sure your girl is safe and secure. Each parent may have a different approach, but most parents are probably trying to tell their daughters what to do all the time. If you don’t tell your daughter what to do, they silently disapprove of what your daughter is doing, and she knows it.
A college girl’s friends are extremely important to her. You are often limited by the expectations of your girlfriends, who expect you to act a certain way at certain times.
College girls also have to deal with the expectations of their boyfriends. It is also EXTREMELY common to see hot girls with boyfriends who are a bit jealous and controlling. So now they always have to deal with that too.
Like I said, college girls are TRAPPED. Everywhere you look, someone is trying to tell you how to act. This is exactly why when you ENCOURAGE her to BE INDEPENDENT, she will love you for it.
Thats the secret. Encourage her to be independent. Encouraging her to be independent also shows that YOU are independent. It makes you more attractive to her. When you’re needy and clingy, he likes you less and less. Necessity is death to attraction. When you do the opposite, as simple as it may seem, she will see you in a VERY unique way, because no one else is telling her to be independent. Jealousy is such a poor quality. It’s so bad that being jealous actually INCREASES the likelihood of her cheating. Don’t be jealous, encourage their independence. She will start to think of you as “one in a million” because actually, you are.
You will also appreciate having the opportunity to spread your wings a bit.
The next time she wants to have a girls’ night out, tell her to have fun! In fact, suggest it. If she wants to go do something or try something new, be the support person. You can even playfully help her find another guy so she can get off your back! Just remember when you do this, find the nerdiest guy in the crowd and say, “He looks like your guy!” Usually he will laugh. Try it. Go chat with your girl right now and get her to talk about what she wants to do that she hasn’t done yet. Then go tell him to go do it! Give strong words of encouragement. I could say, “Honey, I see so much potential in you that you would probably be surprised. When you talk about doing X, I am honestly surprised you haven’t done it yet because I know you are far more capable than that … Go do it! I know! that you can handle it … “
