1. Approach the man you find attractive at the bar. Sit next to him and ask him to give you a pen. If he doesn’t have one on him, ask him to find one. When he hands you a pen, he writes on a napkin, “I think you’re cute. Can you handle a girl who can dance better than you?” Whether she knows it or not, she has broken the ice and he will find his creativity refreshing.
2. Dance within a cute guy’s line of sight and wave every once in a while with a seductive smile that lets him know you’re definitely interested in chatting with him.
3. Brush gently with the man you want on your way for a drink at the bar. If you catch his eye, tell him that he looks good and you’re looking forward to seeing what he can do on the dance floor.
4. Sit next to the man you like, have a drink on the rocks, and then take out the ice cube and rub it on his chest and breasts while complaining about being too hot.
5. Place your hand on his shoulder while asking if he minds if you use his big shoulders for support. Men are pleasantly surprised when women do something unexpected like this to them.
6. Never underestimate the power of a suggestive smile from across the bar. Even if you don’t feel like dancing, you can lean against the bar, sip your drink, smile, and let your eyes let him know you love him.
7. Ask if you can buy him a drink. It works the same way when a man offers to buy you a drink. The difference is that he gets the impression that you’re not one of those women who hang around clubs looking for men to buy them drinks.
8. Make eye contact early in the evening and then walk up behind him later and whisper something provocative in his ear.
9. Let your girlfriend play messenger to add some fun to your evening. You are your girlfriend to approach him and tell him that you think he is cute and that you were wondering if he would like to join you.
10. Tell a waiter or waitress to find out what you like to drink and send it to you. Most men take this gesture as a sign that you find them attractive and would like to chat.
