You met this great guy and you’ve been dating for a while. Not in an exclusive relationship, but they have been spending time together. Phone calls that lasted over an hour, flirtatious smiles are exchanged.
You feel good with him.
Now is the million dollar question you want to know.
He likes you? Is she inside you, or not?
How to know the answer? What are the telltale signs that he is into you?
Well, apart from using your woman’s intuition which is not something I can describe here or teach, I will do my best to “simplify” this complicated thing called “love”.
10 signs that he likes you
1. Watching the same movie twice
You’ve seen the movie. Although he wasn’t very impressed with it, but because you haven’t caught it, he suddenly changed his tone and said that he would really like to see it a second time.
And by the way, if you haven’t seen it too, why don’t we go capture it together? he asked.
You know that his intention is not in the film, but in the company really.
So girls, don’t expose your true intentions. It’s enough to know the underlying truth, be thankful, okay?
2. Your car is playing songs that sound too, familiar?
Because those are your favourites! You just casually mentioned it once, and the next time I take you, you’re in for a musical feast.
Are you always so attentive to everyone’s needs and preferences? Well, you observe how he interacts with others and you tell me.
3. He asks that question!
Well, he’ll try to be as casual and nonchalant as possible. But no matter how cool he acts, deep down he’s burning and dying to know the answer to this question:
“So, are you single?”
If your answer is affirmative, then this will be the following:
“No way. How can someone like you be single? You mean you don’t have a boyfriend?”
Now watch his body language closely. If you notice that he now feels tense and totally relieved when your answer is “No,” then you get the message.
4. Ask for a follow-up date even before the date ends
Now, if he’s not interested in you, why would a man be so eager to “book” your time for another date with him, even when the date is halfway done?
Unless you look like Jessica Alba, or can give her a million dollar job like Donald Trump. If you’re not one of the two or don’t fall into either category, then this may be a clue to her heart…
5. His name is not foreign to his friends
If you get a chance to meet up with their friends, who you know can create such opportunities, you will get some juicy bits from them.
But this may not be quite foolproof, and neither can all of these signs, but if your friends raise their eyebrows or smile sheepishly when you introduce them to you, that means there have been rumors within that gang about someone in particular, which it very well could be. you.
6. He can’t take his eyes off you.
Ok, we know that’s not the kind of staring through your clothes, but a slightly more loving kind of look that speaks of admiration and sympathy.
If eyes could talk, they could ask this question on behalf of their owner: “You are the most beautiful lady I have ever seen. Would you like to be more than friends?”
The best test? When a super cute bombshell or babe struts by, you need to alert her before she notices her. (Of course, this is really taking it a bit far, ha ha… what does it take to stop a man’s wandering eyes? I still can’t figure out the answer)
7. He teases you
From time to time, he will find an opportunity to ask you what kind of guy you are attracted to and are looking for in a partner.
Unless I’m doing what I’m doing (which puts me in a really prime position to ask, ha ha), what good is it to her to know what kind of man you like if not for the fact that he’s up to secret your path to becoming the most suitable candidate?
Don’t be surprised if he starts putting himself down or discrediting himself by saying things about him that don’t fit the list you described. He is testing the waters to see what your reaction would be, which will give him some clues as to how you feel about him.
For example, you listed “having a good sense of humor and making you laugh” as one of the traits that will appeal to him, and he says, “Oh, I’m actually a boring guy. I don’t know how to figure out how to joke around or make girls laugh. So I must be boring you” be careful what you say back.
If you say “Yeah, I don’t think you’re the funny type of person either” instead of “Oh, is that so? But I never find you boring at all. In fact, I feel like we have a lot to talk about.” she will be secretly crying in pain or jumping for joy.
By saying things like that, he’s “forcing” you to give an answer, and either way you’ll be giving clues about how you feel. So girls, if you guys like this guy too, you know what kind of response to give, right?
8. He is doing you favors
Yes, he doesn’t mind taking you from one place to another if he has a car. He will also volunteer to escort you to an out-of-the-way spot to satisfy a sudden craving you have for a delicacy that is sold there.
He will help you with your school work, he will express his interest in giving you a hand with your wanderings that you need to run, buy some things for your family, etc.
If a man isn’t interested in developing anything more than a friendship with you, unless he’s just too bored with his life or Mr. Super Ultra Nice, then I wonder what it is that drives him to be everywhere you need? your help.
9. You are very eager to celebrate special occasions.
Like Valentine’s Day (if he asks you out on that day, I’d really suspect his intention, wouldn’t I?) and your birthday.
I would long to celebrate this special day with you, and preferably alone.
10. He buys you gifts
Sending gifts for no apparent reason and for no reason at all is the easiest way for a man to declare his interest in a girl without verbalizing it. By giving you something, he is testing to see how you react. He’ll usually do this when he’s still not sure how you feel about him, so at least he won’t feel rejected if you reject the gift from him.
At the same time, he hopes to make you happy with such a gift. And if you’re happy, he will be too!
Summing up the above, these may not be scientifically proven 100% foolproof signs to show that he likes you. They came from pure experience and observation. I deliberately didn’t include things like body language where he’ll check how he looks before he meets you, pointing his leg and looking his body at you, etc. because I just want this to be as unscientific as possible.
So ladies, I hope this gives you some clues as to how this man who appears in front of you quite often lately is feeling. Does he Solo have a platonic friendship in mind or something more?
