My goal with this article is to give you two default ways to approach a girl. If you can’t think of any way to approach a girl you like on the spot, you’ll have two easy-to-implement tactics in your toolbox.
There are several ways to approach a girl, but I wanted to start with the most rejection-resistant method I could think of. If you’re like most guys, you probably suffer from a bit of approach anxiety. Girls’ fear of rejection is very real and can wreak havoc on guys’ confidence. That’s why when I was thinking of different ways to approach a girl, I decided that the Hiroshima opener would be the safest and most fun to apply.
Before I get into the details of this method, let me give full credit to its creator, Brad Jackson. Brad developed this technique and it was recently voted the best strategy by the pickup artist community. This is a great default technique that you can turn to every time you go out.
There is an overwhelming reaction to this opener with some artists calling it “fool proof”. I think you are really going to love this opener. He is one of my favorite ways to approach a girl. So how do you do it.
It’s simple. Before you go out, take a piece of A/4 paper and simply write the words “I wish you were here.” When you arrive at your destination, keep an eye out for a group of women who seem to be ready to have some fun. Observe the body language of the group. If there are shots, playing with each other or swaying to the music, you’ve found your group. Make sure they are hot. The reason it’s one of my favorite ways to approach a girl is because it literally breaks through the defense of the most attractive girls.
Approach the group in a friendly, confident way that matches their energy and say “you guys look fun, I need your help with something.” Start pulling the sign out of your pocket and tell them how a friend of yours dumped you and your friends to go on a first date with a girl he met on the internet. Tell the girls that they seem like good representatives of the city or town you are in. Ask them to hold the record for a photo on your cell phone so you can send it to your friend and show him what he’s missing.
If someone is there to take the photo, jump to the photo with the girls. If not, take the photo yourself. When you’re done, tell the girls, “You guys are great. I have to get back to my friends now, but if you see any hot girls here, send them to me, it’s okay.” From there, you can continue to build attraction or go back to your friends.
The number one reason this is one of my favorite ways to approach a girl is because after a while you build a great portfolio of your own with groups of attractive women. Upload the photos to your Facebook profile and use them as social proof. You will not regret!
Have fun with this. The worst that can happen is that you meet new friends.
The second opener that I am going to present to you is called the opinion opener.
An opinion opener is really an indirect way of speaking to a group of women. The most famous is that of who do you think lies more, men or women? Another way of putting this is, who do you think cheats the most? The question should seem natural and you should have a reason why you are asking. For example, when I use the “who do you think cheats the most?” opener I usually have a story about how a friend of mine just found out that his girlfriend of 1 year was cheating on him. I’ll add some juice to the story by saying that I found out about the possibility early and we even had a fight about whether or not his girlfriend would do that to him. Adding more spice and drama to a story about girls is always more entertaining for them. You can always use a fake time constraint at the beginning of the opening, ie, “I can only stay for a few minutes, girls, but before I go back to my friends, I was wondering if you could help settle a debate we just had about women.” “. . This lowers the defense of the girls and allows you to go unnoticed.
There’s a great opportunity in this opener for continued interaction and if things don’t feel right, you can just say “thanks for your feedback” and get back to your friends. Then just rinse and repeat.
Have fun with these openers and enjoy the game!
