Ladies, I’m about to share with you a story that contains a powerful concept that you can use to change your life. Now, you may not approve of how I came to learn this concept, but that doesn’t take away from the tremendous difference it can make for you …
Having been to strip bars (some fully nude and some partially nude) in big cities like Chicago, Dallas, Los Angeles, San Francisco, etc., I found my most memorable strip bar experience during a trip to Springfield, MO.
I walked into this strip club partially naked and there were at least a dozen very beautiful girls with virtually perfect bodies, and no man was interested in them …
… because there was a girl …
Comparatively speaking, she was the ugliest girl there. She was definitely chubby, she had stretch marks and her breasts were smaller …
… and she was the girl that all the guys in the club were willing to see.
It didn’t take me more than a moment to see why. In fact, I lined up as fast as I could so I could experience it for myself. This is what happened when it was my turn …
This stripper looked me straight in the eyes that she backed up with words that came out of her mouth and that she backed up with the movements of her body, the three of them said: “I absolutely love YOU so much that I can hardly stand it. I want to take you for a ride. of sexual pleasure like you have never done before. I am your pleasure doll and no one will ever be able to please you like me. I am your sexual dreams come true. “
His appearance meant nothing to me. The fact that hundreds of people were seeing me with this woman meant nothing to me. I was happy to share the spotlight with this woman.
Now isn’t that interesting? Something goes against the popular belief that men only want the prettiest girl, doesn’t it?
The “ugliest” girl in this striptease venue caught the attention of all the male customers there, simply because she knew what turned a man on and had the confidence to give him what he wanted, and understood that what she looked like was not ‘ It’s not that important.
This story illustrates an important truism.
How a person is “packaged” has very little to do with what they can be, achieve, achieve, and have.
An “average” person with the right attitudes inside, combined with the ability to direct those right attitudes towards other people in the right way, will eventually beat a “pretty” person who doesn’t have the attitudes and who is self-centered. .
In other words, the strippers in the story above who were “packaged” better (more attractive) couldn’t touch the stripper who was not “packaged” as well (not as pretty) but had enough self-confidence to give others what they wanted.
What this means to you is that your attitude and perspective towards your man is far more valuable, important, and attractive to him than any physical trait you may or may not possess.
Certainly, you must keep living to be as attractive as you can be. But, all you can do is all you can do. When you’ve done your best in your appearance, then your attitude, confidence, and perspective are all you need to “get him the rest of the way home” in terms of keeping your man’s attention.
Now, you may view this “anatomical packaging is not important” concept as suspect, so let me ask you a question.
Have you ever known or heard of a man or woman abandoning or divorcing their partner for someone who was not as attractive as their first partner?
Of course yes.
Why would a rational person do this?
Because the new “ugly” partner knew what the “ugly” stripper in this story knew: if I can confidently give my partner what he wants (assuming it fits my values), I can and will beat all the “competitors” no matter how pretty it may be.
Ladies, a word of warning though … When you grab him and look him straight in the eye, watch out for him, you can give the poor boy a heart attack 🙂
