Have you ever wondered why sometimes everything in your life and / or your business flows smoothly? But then there are the other times when the right people or customers just don’t show up on your doorstep. Why did this happened? Is it just “good” or “bad” luck? Is the bad economy to blame? No. There is no “luck”. We all create our own luck. We all create our own experience. It’s all due to the flow of energy. What you attract into your life depends on your positive and negative vibes.
It is no secret that we are all energy. Everything is energy. You, me, the pen that’s on my desk right now. Everything is energy. And everything vibrates at a different rate. The Law of Attraction states, in a nutshell, the similar attracts the similar. In other words, we are like a walking magnet that draws anyone or anything on the same wavelength to us. If you radiate positive energy, you attract positive people and experiences. If you radiate negative energy, you attract negativity. Just as one tuning fork will attract another tuning fork of the same vibration, you are attracting people and things that are just like you.
As early as the 1930s, there were scientists who photographed people’s thoughts and found that positive thoughts with happy emotions behind them generated high vibrations, along with a very clear image. On the contrary, negative thoughts and emotions produced a very low and boring image. So the bottom line is that whatever kind of thought and emotion you put into something is what you get. Plain and simple.
For example, when most people are short on money, they focus on it, they worry about it, they get stressed about it, they distress about it. While they think they are helping the situation by finding a way out of their mess, what they are really doing is making things worse. The mere fact that they are thinking about it adds negative energy to the situation. So what happens then? The more you focus on it, the more you get. The less money you have, the less money you have. It becomes a great downward spiral.
Let’s take romantic relationships as another example. I’m sure you all can relate to the infatuation / newly in love phase of a relationship. Do you remember how that feels? Wasn’t it the best? Who wouldn’t want that to last forever? Most people have an exciting feeling in their stomach and feel like they are walking on air! Why do we feel this way during this phase? Well, it’s because of how we’re vibrating. When we feel “uplifted”, happy and euphoric and as if we could conquer the world, our vibrational energy is extremely positive. That’s why we feel so good !!! On the other hand, when you worry about your partner’s annoying and silly habits, or are breaking up, you probably have an unpleasant “I feel like throwing up” feeling. And that is because its vibrational levels are low. This is a real phenomenon. There is a real physical difference in how your body feels when you radiate positive or negative energy. It is simply a law of physics.
Relationships are known to spoil your positive energy. When we come out of the infatuation stage, we lose that feeling of euphoria. Our energy level drops, as does our partner’s. With both people’s vibration levels dropping, it’s no wonder that amazing feeling goes away. And the sad thing about this is that it’s almost like it turns into a nasty downward spiral from there. Now don’t get me wrong; I am not implying that all relationships are doomed to negativity or that most people, at least in general, are not happy. But the flow of energy between the two people is of vital importance. When your partner does something nice for you, don’t you feel better about them? Don’t you feel happier? And when you feel happier, I’m sure they feel happier. Thus, the cycle continues. People feed off the energy of others. When you go up, they go up (or vice versa). When you go down, they go down. Unfortunately, many partners spiral downward, never finding their way up again. But there are ways. You just have to become aware of your energy flow and make a concentrated effort to keep your energy positive. Appreciate your partner. Do nice things for them. That will send your cycle up.
So how can we harness our ability to use the flow of energy to our advantage in all areas of our life? Well, there are basically four steps. First, identify what you don’t want. Most people are really good at it. It’s pretty easy to say “I don’t want this shitty job / marriage / car / coworker anymore.” Second, identify what you want. That’s not so easy. So what you need to do is take your “don’t wants” and turn them into “wishes.” Use your “don’t want to” as a contrast. For example, if you say, “I don’t want a job where I have to work 10 hours a day and earn less than $ 50,000,” you can say, “I do want a job where I have flexible hours and earn more than $ 50,000.” Next, you need to use some visualization skills. Imagine yourself with your “wishes” and feel and see that you have it! Feel the emotions that accompany your desires. Remember, highly charged positive emotions help magnetize your desires. Finally, allow the “desire” to enter your life. And yes, that sounds easy too. But this is the hardest part. If you think there is no way you will find a job that fits your “wish” description, then it will not come. You need to examine and overcome any doubts you have regarding your “wishes.”
While this may seem like a pretty “out there” concept to most people, it’s really just a basic law of the universe. There is nothing mysterious about it. It is as natural as the Law of Gravity or the Law of Cause and Effect. It is a law that simply exists. You can’t get away from it. Whether you know it or not, you are already experiencing the Law of Attraction. The only difference is that most people don’t know what they are. We just have to learn to harness the ability to use the flow of energy to our advantage.
After you start using these strategies, you will feel like you have found the key to the universe! Things start to happen. People show up at your door. Your “wishes” come into being. It’s a great game! It is a great challenge! So get your positive energy flowing, pay attention to your thoughts, emotions, and actions, and you will finally have the life you want.
